Christmas Celebration 2008

Christmas this year was soooo fun and lovely. Like I mentioned before in my blog that this year we are going to have a quiet celebration, yet I was definitely wrong! There were plenty of parties and houses to go. I truly was in and out of my head with all the food. It was a definitely a FATTening Season for me, honestly I can visually see my tummy extended few inches and gained extra kg along the way!! Duh!!


Anyway, being in Sipitang kinda soothing my emo a lot as I feel rejuvenated and at ease with the atmosphere. It was good to meet new but even more fun to meet all my old friends and meeting up with ‘em just brings back all the memories! Plus, catching up with them was so soulfully fun; we talked out loud and laughing out loud like nobody business… Hell, it’s been so long that we all manage to sit together, just talking and surely it was a fun day. I’m glad we are still the same and can talked like we did few years back and I love every bits of my times with them. Still, changes can be seen in most of them. Some already have their own career, extra responsibilities towards their family as well as husband, have their own fashion sense, either way all looking wonderful and fabulous. I can actually see we are all quickly turning into young women with lots of wisdom, courage and already in right path of life. Wow, shocking yet truthfully an eye opening for me. I guess I can fully admit it now that I must STOP goofing around and take my responsibilities seriously. Huh, what a life! Duh! The funny thing about catching up is asking whether or not we have bf or not. Hahahaha, simply Malaysian way of saying “you need to have someone to be admitted to the society”… It is quite funny to see them guessing whether I have someone stash somewhere in KK…. Hahaha



Also, this season everybody is bringing somebody to meet and greet the family. Unfortunately, our family is the only one still failed to bring someone back. Ahahaha… Watching my big sister being asked the common question “where her BF is?” That was so funny and priceless watching her facial expression changes …. As for my mum, she was surprise to see her 2 daughters and son are drinking liquor. I think she still have thought of us as a child, child that doesn’t know anything about drinking. As she saw us mixing and drinking the all the liquor, her mouth was wide open. But for my dad, his action was unassuming and he was OK with that (he is a cool dad). I guess we are good at hiding stuff s like that from both of their knowledge. Basically, most parents still consider their child to be a child forever even though most of them are grown ups already. Parents are like that, their need to care and protect their children are so in them, that most of them still have the tendency to micro manage their child’s life. Oh well, it is good to have that extra care and benefit from our parents from time to time. They are like our safety blanket that always pulls us together no matter how we wish to take it off.

Just Goofing Around.... Again

Pics from Church

Pics from Family Dinner

Pics during the Wedding

Kumon and Me

2 weeks ago, I went 4 interview for Kumon. Kumon is actually a self learning center that originated from Japan.....yadda..yadda... It is interesting to see child as young as 3 years old able to read, good job! Basically, my friend recommended me for the interview as I was unemployed and freshly graduated, I guess this is one way to gain working experience.

Btw, during the interview I manage to do all the Dont's part by stuttering here and there, I can feel myself sweating of nervousness and yes I did not do my research about Kumon. Well, thankfully I read the plat and can answer few of her questions. Instead of talking bout the facts, I just wing it. I also commit mistake by saying my expected salary is RM600-RM800. That was stupid of me and I regret it now and I realize if I were paid in that amount, surely I am underpaid, no wonder she accept me straight away. I guess I was totally green and new to the working force. Lesson learned and next time I will be more prepare. Hmm... I do hope I can score in my upcoming test to determine how much I will receive as my salary and hopefully get more than what I expected. I need the extra cash to pay my PTPN and support myself. Well, Il be starting my new job this 30/12/2008 and hopefully things will work well.

PS: I do hope I can stay committed and interested in my new job!

Be a Man

What does it mean being a man? Does it mean he need to be in power, take control and take charge in all the things he do, capable of managing his life accordingly, strong in a sense of his personality, cunningly smart, firm, steadfast and able provide for himself as well as the people around him.

But something that really confuses me is the fact how a man posses so much power in his work and he control a department of staffs and is consider to be on top of his game could be so undecided in terms of his personal life and family. In my opinion, he should take a stand and take charge of his life. Between the love towards his families and love for his wife and son… he should therefore take a side and stick to it. No matter how hard it may be, just stick to it and hopefully things will work out well. It’s just a waste of energy by lying to both sides and even harder to carry such burden alone. I mean he went back and forth to his wife‘s home claiming he went to see friends which is obnoxious. I mean we are not blind to neither see nor realize he is in fact gone to see his wife. It is just as stupid watching commuting from his wife’s home and here (my cousin’s home). I mean if he still loves his wife, just go back and settle all the dirty laundry. I know it is hard, but it is harder for him later if he did not take a stand now! Be a MAN and take your stand now!

Lately, I saw an alarming pattern of him. Not only did he come back in the early morning, he also came home so wasted…. I mean so drunk. What’s up, how did he turn to be an alcoholic and a drunk , I guess after being let out of the cage, he is finally able to do things when he was a bachelor. Still, it is unhealthy habit and I do wish he will change for the better. I do wish all the best for him next year and hopefully he’ll get through this. -> (so in the forgiving mood)-> (I blame the spirit of Xmas!)

Before I 4get, I met his wife this afternoon. As we were shopping in CKS, my cousin saw her and instantly calls me. I then saw her as both of us were shopping in the same lane. We came across each other, but manage to stay as stranger. Honestly at the exact moment I realize I wasn’t as angry as I initially did. I mean meeting her and knowing what she done really sparks and deepen my hatred toward her yet I realize she is a woman with agenda. The more I hate her, the more she will come on top. Oh well, it is a waste of my time and energy to be bother by her stupid child play. But I do like to make fun her and of course I do have a kick on it.

Either way, Merry Xmas to all and Happy New Year!

Bad Day ...Again

I feel like crap today....and as I woke up early this morning I have this crazy headache and my head literally buzzing! It was a sight in which I hope I shall never experience it! Oh man b4 u get into the wrong idea, I wasn't hungover from Last nite, I was as a matter of fact contracted Fever/ Cold / Demam from my dear friend Zz. That's sux, it totally put me in2 an emo mood.

You know the worst part, is when I was dragged out of the bed at 7.30am and escorted my dear aunts and cuzzie to the airport! OMG, I hate the rushing part especially during my sick moment! Coughfing all the way was ok though yet the worst part is staying in balance! All my body ache and soar, my nose was runny, head explodingly ache & emotianally tired and drain from the fever! Hohoho - seems too much but then that's what I felt during the day! During my shopping of lights 4 the new house simply made my head spin even more. I mean there's various type of choices and all look seemingly beautiful and shiny. I end up choosing the first 1 I saw and take my aunt's and my cuzzie's advices...... Easy, I was done and out of there for about 1 hour an half. Not bad for 1st time lights shopper! I regret the fact that I didn't brough my camera and take pics on the light! I do hope my family love the choices I made and hope the choices will go well on the house decor.


FYI- Im still in an emo mood and I do hate eating the medications! Urgh, I do hope Christmas will be glisteningly bright and healthier for me!


Ps: Sorreee for my tantrums and rudeness this morning -> can't help it when you are in an emo mood and have fever!

Have a Blessed Christmas

Kotobian ...Kotobian...Kotobian do Blakat Krismas ..!

What I want 4 Christmas:

1. My mom to get well and her legs strong enough to run.

2. Family gathering & dinner together.

3. Nothing but blessing from HIM to my families.

4. For all of us to be Merry & Happy New Year!

5. People will find the true meaning of family!

• Christmas this year might be the quietest one as we will not have any open house as usual. This is due to the fact my mom being unwell these few months. Well, I guess its ok la, as her health is the main priority now. At least I am with my family and that’s seems to be ok for me. I do hope everybody will have a wonderful and blessed Christmas…. As well as Happy New Year 2009!

My time spent in Sipitang

Welcome To Kg Muhibah - My Homiee

Free time is something in which I have a lot in Sipitang. So like any other vibrant & sweet girl will do, I contribute most of it by cleaning the house from top to bottom. It’s not quite spick and span yet, but it can be considered as ok la….! At least I didn’t use my free time by slacking all over the house.

Some of the Pics from The KKD Holy Family Caroling's Team



The After Party

I also joined my KKD’s Caroling Team and that was quite interesting and merry. At the same time ,I did do some good by spreading the joy of Christmas to every house within our domain. But, what bothers me most is why they change the lyric of Merry Xmas to → Blessed Xmas… I spot something wrong with it yet oddly interesting to hear all at the same time. I specially love the Dusun version of it → Kotobian, Kotobian, Kotobian do blakat Xmas….! That so sweet …loves it! Oh ya, the team was very sweet and welcoming, that’s something which I truly enjoyed as my past time in Cptg. Plus the food that was served simply fattening (yummy) and I gained extra pound 4 that… arghh … Xmas with an extra stuffing in my tummy!

The things I hate most in Cptg....

No Internet connection at home.... Im lost without my Internet ....

The Internet connection in Hi-Tec SUCKS big time -> Super duper slow (BUDUS)!!!!!

Most people I met here r so BORING ( Hv 2 b hypocrite while wit 'em) ... excepts families & close friends.

My mom keep on watching most of the Indonesian drama on TV which I find to be entertainingly sux!!! -> Just not my cup of tea except 4 the drama "Mutiara" at TV9.

Nothing interesting on TV...

No fellow friends 2 hangout ......

The mounting of house chores to be done ....

The silent is killing me!! Same norms & routine ... can't stand that!

Im immobilize here in Cptg!

Everyday feels like Monday!! U want to run away yet u r stuck in the same place! Duh!

The same continuous questionnaire by fellow neighbours! -> refer to my blog b4.

Home Sweet Home ..... My ASS!!!

Bite me

I am finally back in my own room which I found to be quite weird and odd in so many ways. The fact that I finished unpack all my stuffs seems to scare me even more. I feel that somehow I will be permanently stuck here ……. in Sipitang. Not that I resent it, but I feel as a grown woman I should out grow my hometown by exploring other places. Urgh, scareee!!! Not that I hate being a “kampung girl”, but I don’t know, I can’t seem to breathe here, like I lost myself, everything feels like normal… Life ere move in a very slow pace, in fact I am starting to die slowly of boredom, that’s why I need to find a job A.S.A.P, start living on my own, be able to provide for myself and not depend much on my parents. I feel like such a burden to them. I am also afraid of meeting my neighbours (so funny that I finally come to this stage). Hate to be asked the common questionnaire, “what are you doing now”, “where r you now?” , “what is your plan”, “hey, are you going to be a teacher afterwards”, “so how is your posting” , “kamu pnya ijazah diiktiraf ka?”, “ble ka kamu dpat kerja ni di sekolah kerajaan?”, “ anak c …… sdah jadi cikgu d SMPO 2, ko bila lagi?”……

-> All these questions seems to be driving me mad…. I just want to scream out loud in front of their faces and say shut up... but instead I went home and cried alone in my old & blue room, crying the blue out of me (ironic). Honestly being here gives me the creeps & the pressure of getting a job seems to be mounting on my shoulder. Duh, I guess I am not as lucky as I thought I was. I shud have taken BBA instead of BED!

Basically, I don’t have a clue about how to get a job, which job should I be applying as I am super duper confuse! I am lost, honestly lost. Where do I begin, I am taking Bachelor of Education from UNITAR and the fact that most people questioned about whether or not this course is validate by the government really slimming the chances of me branching out. Yes, last time I checked it is VALIDATE by the MQA & government. But the fact that we are from private does not allow us to ride the “smooth highways” as to other graduates of educators from local universities and Maktab. We need to fill in the forms 1st together with our transcript then post it to the Ministry of Education. Then, the waiting start, in which hoping to be call for interview from the government (I guess), but we do have to wait long time as there is a long list of names plus the chances is slim as most of the empty positions is given out to those from local universities. We the private will have to wait some more (reality bites big time) -> that’s the basic procedure of us graduates from private institutions. But, if we opt to go and teach 4 private sectors … up to us, yet like I said I am lost. I haven’t had a clue of how to dig myself out of this pitfall. I know I should have locus control of my destiny, yet I am truly honestly lost. Lost in the world of job as well as suffocating myself here in Sipitang! -> Shoot me but before that lend a helping hand and dig me out of this pitfall!!

Just Goofing around ....Part 2

Women in my Life

Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot.... Hahahaha...maybe it's the fact that I've been very-very senang or the fact that I have 2 much free time at hand.....!!!


What have I been thinking so deeply, you might wonder??? Well, for once I am acknowledging that my life is blessed and in a way that I may not appreciate till lately. I have a strong family connection in which sometimes I resent it to a point which I try to ignore them.... But the more I run, the more I am bonded with them...Let’s face it, they are bunch of people that I am fully & truly attach with.... Hahaha.... That's the truth and as a matter of fact now we are all cram in my cuzen’s house with limited space to move and to sleep (*I blame Christmas shopping*). Still, somehow I feel belong and I do feel I can be myself and goof around without any cares of people judging me silently. They are my family and I feel deeply connected with every single one of them. I wish all of them nothing but the best and let them be strong no matter what the obstacles lays ahead of them. For once I am sure they will get through it as they are strong women with wit and independently beautiful in so many ways.

Talking bout strong woman, I’ve been very lucky to be surrounded with strong women in my 23 years of my life (*I wish more years to come*) and in some ways I do feel that’s where I got my courage as well as my loud character. I am not saying my family is perfect to the teeth. We do have our ups and down, we might no be financially stable, our clothes might not be designer approve, we don’t have the fancy cars, we don’t go for posh holidays (*except for my aunt and my cuzzie*), but one thing for sure I appreciate the fact that we spent time to talk, laugh out loud and annoyingly being ourselves ~~ Stupid in many ways, yet wiser in our own sweet, uniquely different characters → (*does it even make sense!!*). Whatever it is, they are the one that you can go for in time of need, because family is for keep and for life you are bonded with them. So, its either you part with them angrily or be one of them, its true they say, if you can’t beat them, join them. I know I am a happy camper although sometimes I wish they will be much nicer in their choices of words as they words is sharper than the blade itself, one cut, you’ll be wounded for life. …. AUCH…. Pedih eeeehhh…..

PS: Bitch is not worth to be acknowledged as family yet they do deserve few harsh lessons of 2^nd chances….. (*Wink-Wink*)

Pictures from My Hommies....

Just Goofing Around

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A Teacher's Lesson

There is a story many years ago of an elementary teacher. Her name was Mrs. Thompson. And as she stood in front of her 5th grade class on the very first day of school, she told the children a lie. Like most teachers, she looked at her students and said that she loved them all the same.

But that was impossible, because there in the front row, slumped in his seat, was a little boy named Teddy Stoddard. Mrs. Thompson had watched Teddy the year before and noticed that he didn't play well with the other children, that his clothes were messy and that he constantly needed a bath. And Teddy could be unpleasant. It got to the point where Mrs. Thompson would actually take delight in marking his papers with a broad red pen, making bold X's and then putting a big "F" at the top of his papers.

At the school where Mrs. Thompson taught, she was required to review each child's past records and she put Teddy's off until last. However, when she reviewed his file, she was in for a surprise.

Teddy's first grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is a bright child with a ready laugh. He does his work neatly and has good manners. He is a joy to be around."

His second grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is an excellent student, well liked by his classmates, but he is troubled because his mother has a terminal illness and life at home must be a struggle."

His third grade teacher wrote, "His mother's death has been hard on him. He tries to do his best but his father doesn't show much interest and his home life will soon affect him if some steps aren't taken."

Teddy's fourth grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is withdrawn and doesn't show much interest in school. He doesn't have many friends and sometimes sleeps in class."

By now, Mrs. Thompson realized the problem and she was ashamed of herself. She felt even worse when her students brought her Christmas presents, wrapped in beautiful ribbons and bright paper, except for Teddy's. His present which was clumsily wrapped in the heavy, brown paper that he got from a grocery bag.

Mrs. Thompson took pains to open it in the middle of the other presents. Some of the children started to laugh when she found a rhinestone bracelet with some of the stones missing, and a bottle that was one quarter full of perfume. But she stifled the children's laughter when she exclaimed how pretty the bracelet was, putting it on, and dabbing some of the perfume on her wrist.

Teddy Stoddard stayed after school that day just long enough to say, "Mrs. Thompson, today you smelled just like my Mom used to." After the children left she cried for at least an hour. On that very day, she quit teaching reading, and writing, and arithmetic. Instead, she began to teach children.

Mrs. Thompson paid particular attention to Teddy. As she worked with him, his mind seemed to come alive. The more she encouraged him, the faster he responded. By the end of the year, Teddy had become one of the smartest children in the class and, despite her lie that she would love all the children the same, Teddy became one of her "teacher's pets."

A year later, she found a note under her door, from Teddy, telling her that she was still the best teacher he ever had in his whole life. Six years went by before she got another note from Teddy. He then wrote that he had finished high school, third in his class, and she was still the best teacher he ever had in his whole life.

Four years after that, she got another letter, saying that while things had been tough at times, he'd stayed in school, had stuck with it, and would soon graduate from college with the highest of honors. He assured Mrs. Thompson that she was still the best and favorite teacher he ever had in his whole life.

Then four more years passed and yet another letter came. This time he explained that after he got his bachelor's degree, he decided to go a little further. The letter explained that she was still the best and favorite teacher he ever had. But now his name was a little longer - the letter was signed, Theodore F. Stoddard, M.D.

The story doesn't end there. You see, there was yet another letter that spring. Teddy said he'd met this girl and was going to be married. He explained that his father had died a couple of years ago and he was wondering if Mrs. Thompson might agree to sit in the place at the wedding that was usually reserved for the mother of the groom. Of course, Mrs. Thompson did. And guess what? She wore that bracelet, the one with several rhinestones missing. And she made sure she was wearing the perfume that Teddy remembered his mother wearing on their last Christmas together.

They hugged each other, and Dr. Stoddard whispered in Mrs. Thompson's ear, "Thank you Mrs. Thompson for believing in me. Thank you so much for making me feel important and showing me that I could make a difference."

Mrs. Thompson, with tears in her eyes, whispered back. She said, "Teddy, you have it all wrong. You were the one who taught me that I could make a difference. I didn't know how to teach until I met you."

Love VS Jealousy

Jealousy surely is a funny word!!! Jealousy can be a complicated in so many ways especially in a relationship. Jealousy is a MUST they say to keep the relationship going and to make it more interesting. It also make us believe that the partner is truly IN LOVE with us..... Funny right, I guess we can say that love is truly BLIND...It blinded us in some way that we can't see the real us and reality behind it.. Which is sad to say...!!!

The problem here is not about jealousy is love or not, it is the amount a person should have it in a relationship..... I do wonder how many amount of jealousy is appropriate for a person to have!! Well, jealousy is kinda romantic but too much can spell disaster. I have few of my friends whose boyfriend are the jealous type, the BF forbid the GF to talk or befriend to any guys.... He controls the GF's life to a point that the GF sort live in world permitted only by the BF... Sad but true.. If the GF refuse, hell broke loose ... By then, both either break up or fight the night out. True, I even seen them fighting!!! I do also have friends that their BF was a TOTAL Green Eyed MOnster, so protective and super psycho. How psycho u ask, well, this particular BF not only forbid her to ONLY go out with him, he also make her stay at home the whole time, only go out 2 school and even forbid her to go out even with us her own besties, he even bought her a hp so that he can call her and know wherever she is. Also, for every man that talks to her, he will b sort of in a rage afterward.... They will start this huge fight which my friend end up crying her eyes out and me being a good friend came to consult her... I thought the fact that she have enough of him will end the relationship, but 3 days later they make up again... Urgh.... The cycle continue. I remember there is one incident in which me and her went out to the local Tamu, an hour later we saw his car just circling the Tamu area.... Then out of nowhere he came and start dragging my friend .... I mean OMG, I was not only embarrassed by his stupidity but I just want 2 smack him in the face. I did try to be talk politely to him, but then how cud u talk 2 such ignorant and stupid person!!! Well, thank God she dump the loser and I do hope the best for her.

Sometimes too much amount of jealousy will cause the relationship to be abusive. Urgh.... that is super sad for the abuse victim.... I seen that before, surely it was a sight that I wish I shall never encounter...... Hurrr....thinking bout it even gives me goosebumps. No wonder I am a commitment freak......

We use to hear bout the man being the Green Eyed Monster type and woman being the victim... Still, woman are not that far behind. I guess it is funny for woman being the jealous type, how a woman capable of controlling the a man's life and it does seems degrading to some level for man.... But it is the truth. Truth does hurt.... Imagine a grown man kick out of the house because the woman simply unable to control her jealousy and act lunatic-ally... Well, to a certain degree it is funny but then you realize how woman can b such a BITCH... and this particular woman is totally a BITCH for not having any respect for the man she called her husband. She treat the husband like a garbage, if she like him she keep him and if she doesn't then out you go. Well, her angelic looking face totally deceive all of us.......How ironic....!! Honestly laaaa... If you ever meet this woman you'll surely thought I was making some bad stories bout her... Bu that's the truth..She is a damn good actress, bloody bitch!! She always goes to church on Sunday yet it never click 2 her the marriage's vow she made, which is to obey your husband!! Puhleez laaaa woman ....How ignorant is she, true they say, ignorance is a bliss!! I do hope Karma will educate this woman about "what goes around comes around".... I do wish she could read this, but unfortunately she's too stupid 2 use the Internet.... God bless her 4 that!!!

Anyway, if it is just a relationship, we can simply break it up and move on, but what if it is a marriage consent by the church and involve kids and family at large. Do we walk away from it or we stay and take the heat... Either way, both options cause nothing but loss and to some level emotional breakdown. Nevertheless, if ending a marriage might save a tiny soul in our heart and set us free, then so be it. A happy marriage is when both people are committed , have mutual understanding, mutual respect and good communication, when all fails .... ending it might not be that bad.....

Soreee if I offend anyone, but hey it's my blog and haters be gone.... So ladies and gentleman, jealous moderately and love truly..... Hohoho..............Love truly does hurt...... painfully SAKIT !!!


It's hard to determine
where to draw the line
between being nice
and not hurting people's feelings,
and standing up
for what you believe.

Battle of the Sexes

Sex

Women prefer 30 to 45 minutes of foreplay. Men prefer 30 to 45 seconds of foreplay. For the man, driving back to her place is considered a part of foreplay.

Maturity

Women mature at a much faster rate than men. Most 17 year old females can function as adults. Most 17 year old males are still trading baseball cards and giving each other wedgies after gym class. This is why high school romances rarely work.

Groceries

A woman knows how to shop for groceries. She makes a list of the things she needs, and then goes to the store and buys these things. A man does not shop on a frequent basis. He waits until the only items left in his refrigerator are an opened can of Schlitz and a half a lime. Then he goes grocery shopping. A man buys everything that looks good. By the time a man reaches the checkout counter, his cart is packed tighter than the Clampett's car on the Beverly Hillbillies. Of course, this will not stop him from going to the 10 items or less lane.

Magazines

Men's magazines often feature pictures of naked ladies. Women's magazines also feature pictures of naked ladies. This is because the female body is a beautiful work of art, while the male body is lumpy and hairy and should not be seen by the light of day.

Handwriting
To their credit, men do not decorate their penmanship. They just chicken-scratch. Women use scented, colored stationary, and they dot their "i's" with circles and hearts. Women use ridiculously large loops in their "p's" and "g's." It is a royal pain to read a note from a woman. Even when she's dumping you, she'll put a smiley face at the end of the note.

Comedy
Let's say a small group of men and women are in a room, watching television, and an episode of the Three Stooges comes on. Immediately, the men will get very excited; they will laugh uproariously, and even try to imitate the actions of Curly, man's favorite stooge. The woman will roll their eyes and groan and wait it out.

Bathrooms
A man has 6 items in his bathroom: a toothbrush, toothpaste, shaving cream, a razor, a bar of Dial soap and a towel from a Holiday Inn. The average number of items in a typical American women's bathroom is 437. A man would not be able to identify most of these items.

Going Out
When a man says he is ready to go out, it means he is ready to go out. When a woman says she is ready to go out, it means she will be ready, as soon as she finds her other earring, makes one phone call and finishes putting on her makeup.

Cats
Women love cats. Men say they love cats, but when women aren't looking, men kick cats.

Shoes
When preparing for work, a woman will put on a Mondi wool suit, and then slip into Reebok sneakers. She will carry her dress shoes in a plastic bag from Saks. When a woman gets to work, she will put on her dress shoes. Five minutes later she will kick them off because her feet are under the desk. A man will wear one pair of shoes for the entire day.

Leg Warmers
Leg warmers are sexy. A woman, even if she's walking the dog or doing the dishes, is allowed to wear leg warmers. She can wear them any time she wants. A man can only wear leg warmers if he is auditioning for the "Gimme the Ball" number in A Chorus Line.

Mirrors
Men are vain; they will check themselves out in the mirror. Women are ridiculous; they will check out their reflections in any shiny surface, mirrors, spoons, store windows, toasters, or Joe Garagiola's head.

Menopause
When a woman reaches menopause, she goes through a variety of complicated emotional, psychological, and biological changes. The nature and degree of these changes varies with the individual. Menopause in a man provokes a uniform reaction -- he buys aviator glasses, a snazzy French cap and leather driving gloves, and goes shopping for a Porsche.

The Telephone
Men see the telephone as a communication tool. They use the telephone to send short messages to other people. A woman can visit her girlfriend for two weeks, and upon returning home, she will call the same friend and they will talk for three hours.

Offspring
Ah, children. A woman knows all about her children. She knows about dentist appointments and soccer games and romances and best friends and favorite foods and hopes and dreams. A man is vaguely aware of some short people living in his house.

Apache's Blessing

~~ Congratulation ~~

I dedicate this to my beloved friend Lydia that will soon be wed this Saturday .... Sooo glad it was u that go down the aisle & for that I won the bet .... Hohoho....

Now you will feel no rain,
For each of you will be the shelter to the other.
Now you will feel no cold,
For each of you will be warmth to the other.
Now there is no more loneliness for you,
For each of you will be companion to the other.

Now you are two bodies,
But there is only 1 life before you.
Go now to your dwelling place,
To enter into days of your togetherness.
And may your days be good,
And long upon the Earth .......................

All in a Day's Life

~~ My trusty wing boy & my proactive model ~~

~~ Hallelujah 4 TV ~~ Oprah . W ~~ My Fav show~~

~~ Trusty Lappie that takes me all over the world ~~

~~ Books borrowed from Pnampang's Library ~~


~~ CD that need to b watch ~~



~~ Evening sleep is essential ~~

Hahaha...who say being home and unemployed is boring... It depends on how u look at it...

Plus, I believe this is the best time 2 just 'wing it' & relax... after 3 years of nonstop studying, so no pressure!!

But then, next year its time to be in a serious mood and Get my ARSE moving....get a job!!! Urghhh... ~~ the horror, the horror ~~

STOP Bangauing ....Part 2

Pictures from the Seminar :

~~ This is what happen when boredom take over ~~

~~ Beautiful kan ~~


~~ Eating Time ~~

The New Friends that I met

Yep..that's my trademark ~~PEACE~~

~~ He Roxz the Seminar ~~

~~ Me trying the sitting pose.... Hohoho ~~









Reminder:

• When eating during seminar, remember to eat moderately.
• If wish to eat more, take twice and avoid "piring mgunung" - Not so Ladylike!!!
  
• Don't scream & shout during seminar, people might think your rude and childish no matter how smart your English is.
• Be proactive & participate actively!!!!