I wish...I wish!

This is a tag by sweet-girlicious . As with all tags, here are the rules :~

1. Make a list of what you want on your birthday
2. The list should be 10 numbers
3. Post the image of this award in your posting
4. Give it to 10 friends of yours

My birthday wishes for 2009 :~

1. Get a steady job with RM2k ++ pay ---> Job that I can utilize my knowledge and ability..!
   
2. Less "ignorant, rich bloody son of a gun" people in the world...
   
3. Be more passionate about life!
   
4. Own a Swift car!!! Oh...puhleeez.....
   
5. A trip to out of Malaysia... Philippine, South Korea or N. Zealand ...
6. A new pair of Transitions spectacles ... I love to own 1!
   
7. New dress, new shoe & new handbag ---> Prefer branded 1!
   
8. More patience towards people around me and the environment...!
   
9. Less talking & more listening!
10. Socially active.... again.... Urghh... My life currently fill with boredom and frustration.

Oh well... that's my bday wishes... but I insits to add sumore... Hehehe...My blog...my say!... Well, I would like to have an exclusive performance by Linkin Park....which I could meet and greet them..>!! Plus, meet the cast of Boys Before Flower (Korean version)! --> If only wishes can come true... Oh well, dreaming is what we human are best of!

Global Earth Hour

I just read an article in Daily Express (Friday, 27 March, 2009) about this group / Gerakan is doing a wonderful campaign of promoting the program of “Global Earth Hour”. According to the leader, they are distributing 10,000 flyers for the residential area around Kota Kinabalu. Well, the flyers are about 2 pages, which include all the information about the program and simple illustration about global climate. Good effort in educating K.Kinabalu people about the importance of making a global statement of concern about climate change and to demonstrate commitment to finding solutions.

What bothers me most is the amount of flyers distributed in the process of promoting this cause. ... It is an Earth Hour, isn’t it … Could we at least save the papers for the benefit of trees around the world especially those in Malaysia. I mean the more paper we waste or use, means more trees are going down and the climate surely will go higher. So why not save the paper and find new alternative for spreading the cause of the “Global Earth Hour”! Plus, I don’t think everyone will take their time reading the flyer, even if they do read, what happen after they finish reading? Surely you won’t expect them to save it and there is a high chance it might end up in the trash. Knowledge is power they say, but in this case I don’t think it totally help in educating people about the “Global Earth Hour” by using this method.

But, hey…take it from me…do participate in the “Global Earth Hour”, we might save ourselves another decades of living in this earth before hell break loose…. ! Remember 8.30pm – 9.30 pm ……

Human

Just the thought of losing someone which is close and dear to us simply makes our heart screaming in pain….. But to really… really loose that person is even painfully heartbreaking and sad. At that exact moment we will then realize how easily life ended these days. Nothing is for certain these days and as human we can only walk our life with the hope that we leave a mark in someone’s life somewhere and that we somehow make a difference in this world. Hopefully, someone might miss us and might remember us just the way we are. Even so, I pray that my love one shall live their life healthily and be content of what they already have.

Honestly, life shouldn’t be this complicated but hey who am I comparing to HIM… I am only a humble dancer dancing the night away until He decides to take me out. Even so, I hope I shall live my life to my utmost best ….. --> ((emo)) <--…..

This totally reminds me a song from the ...

Killers (Human).

I did my best to notice
When the call came down the line
Up to the platform of surrender
I was brought but I was kind

And sometimes I get nervous
When I see an open door
Close your eyes, clear your heart
Cut the cord

Are we human or are we dancers?
My sign is vital, my hands are cold
And I'm on my knees looking for the answer
Are we human or are we dancers?

Pay my respects to grace and virtue
Send my condolences to good
Give my regards to soul and romance
They always did the best they could

And so long to devotion
You taught me everything I know
Wave goodbye, wish me well
You've gotta let me go

Are we human or are we dancers?
My sign is vital, my hands are cold
And I'm on my knees looking for the answer
Are we human or are we dancers?

Will your system be alright
When you dream of home tonight?
There is no message we're receiving
Let me know, is your heart still beating?

Are we human or are we dancers?
My sign is vital, my hands are cold
And I'm on my knees looking for the answer

You've gotta let me know
Are we human or are we dancers?
My sign is vital, my hands are cold
And I'm on my knees looking for the answer
Are we human or are we dancers?

Are we human or are we dancers?
Are we human or are we dancers?

Me and my ...Korean drama

Here it goes again... me and my Korean drama obsession ...Well; I am currently into this Boys Before Flower -- drama (Korean version). It’s quite interesting watching the same storyline from different versions of countries. You see, I had watched the Meteor Garden 1 & 2 (Taiwan version), Hana Yori Dango 1, 2 & the movie (Japanese version) …. and….jeng..jeng..jeng…now the long anticipated Korean version. Gila ni, I have been following this story from mysoju.com and KBS world (Channel 303) all these while and I can’t seem to get enough of it. I can’t wait for the VCD / DVD to come out. Surely, I will buy it and hopefully my mom wouldn’t find out that I waste my money yet again for some Korean drama vcd…!! Ladida!

Niway, based on the 3 versions, I still like the Japanese version best as I find Domyouji quite funny than Jun Pyo ….! Plus, the Japanese version is more anime like funny and they stick to the same original storyline of the original comic.

By the way, the Korean version also quite good, especially the actors (super-duper cute, handsome and buff up), and actresses (cute and better than the Japanese actresses), at the same time showing off many ‘to-die hi-tec gadget’ ---> my mouth got so watery to see all the gadgets in the drama. Simply to-die for! Oh, did I mention the fashion sense also better than the Meteor Garden, simply fashionably stylo. But, I do wish the actors' acting wouldn't be that visually stiff. There was a few moments when their acting became quite stiff and somewhat unreal....

Anyhow, the thing that I love about Korean drama is mostly they have this capability to inject the romantic aspect in most of their drama that most audiences are so into it. I mean, if the Italian can be regard or portray as the romantic people of the West, then Korean are the romantic people of the East!!

Well,I can't wait for the conclusion of this drama and see the twist they made for the Korean version.... Can't wait..... !! I do hope Gaul and Yi Jung will eventually be together...!!

Yummie....yummy.....

Still, like I mention earlier, I am definitely into the Japanese version of the entire 3 version…. Who doesn’t like the obnoxious character of Domiyoji in Hana Yori Dango, as well as the hilarious, simple and poignant storyline! The only thing that bumps me about the Japanese version is that I couldn’t get the romantic effect from the Japanese version. I mean there are several scene that worth kissing and left nothing but 2 characters hugging it out!

We can't forget the Meteor Garden 1 & 2 ...which started it all! I think I fall for this 1 first before the other 2 come out...! Oh well, happy watching....!

My oh my...!

I just read this news from Seoulbeats and Yein Jee's Asian Journal - about a young Korean actress died of committing suicide. It is quite strange as currently if you are following everything about Korean Entertainment, you might realize that there is a strings of suicide commits over last year and this year.


Wow... it is disturbing to read that the death of the latest suicidal victim;



" - Jang Ja Yeon - "was beaten and raped" - Jang was initially ruled to have ended her life because of stress/depression, but the situation took a sudden twist following revelation from Jang’s ex-manager, Yoo, that Jang’s suicide was a conspiracy. "


Reading the news simply making me sick, hopefully those who were said to be involve will be take to the court and punish by their wrong doing..... "help bring change in the entertainment industry they desperately need" (seoulbeats) .... I do hope however the deceased shall be revenge and let her soul rest in peace!


Honestly, we are living in a morally corrupt society nowadays... even the entertainment industry seems to be the mere mirror of our society! I guess the entertainment circle can be quite dangerous especially for the newbies these days. My oh my... this make me wonder ... does Malaysian entertainment industry operate same like the Korean entertainment industry??? Oh well... whatever...!

Family Matters

Here are 2 situations which worth pondering…..

1^st Scenario

Let say, the ship you are riding together with your wife and your mother are about to sink. Unfortunately, the Captain just took the last life jacket and off he went into the sea. You, yourself should be able to save yourself as you can swim, too bad for those 2 as they didn’t know how to swim. So, what do you do? Who would you give your life to save…? Will it be the caring mother who nurtures all your life or the wife who is the mother of your son?

2^nd Scenario

Marriage drama

Wife: Honey, apala ur mom tu myibuk saja hal rumahtangga kita! Your family tu lagi kaki penyibuk, hal rumah tangga kta pn dorang mo kepoh, taula kita macamna mo urus. Btul tak honey?

Mom: Kami bkan sibuk, cma concern about kmu dua pnya well being. Kalu sdh thap halau2 ni, family ada hak masuk campur untuk mdamaikan / myelesaikan mslh… Is it a bad thing trying to help .. I am not here to create chaos, I am not some ALong, I just want to tolong! Kalu itupun x ble... hmmmm....

Husband: ????…bingung…

So husband which words will you choose to listen?

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I have the opportunity to see the drama unfolds and listens to different kind of views from my families. To see my families trying to intervene in hopes to settle the drama as well as teaching the wife a lesson or two about respect for the husband as well as the in laws, truly a heated drama that is worth more than the Sinetron on TV! Yet, unfortunately… niat murni my family kena tolak bulat2 oleh si husband yang juga merupakan our family.

From my point of view, families have their rights to intervene in this particular marriage! I know I am not yet near to be a parent or still being regards as “budak-budak”… however, being 1 of the Brady Bunch, I do feel the heat whether to join the intervention or stand on the sideline. I choose to be the latter; still, I have 2 eyes, 2 ears, 1 mouth and a mind of my own… and that surely why I need to express my mind about this matter. Since I can’t talk to him face to face, at least I could somehow reach him through my blog.

I believe it is unwise for this person to say his family being too “kepoh” and “pyibuk” for trying to help in settling his marriage problem. Auch, that is shockingly painful to hear from his mouth. I mean come on la… There’s a few things that I wish to highlight here;

1. No family will waste their time to ruin the marriage of its members for the sake of revenge or saja suka-suka mo kepoh!

2. The wife need to learn a tough lesson of respect! Respect kepada the mother in laws especially and ya the husband! Saying that the wife “TIDAK PERLU” minta maaf dengan the mother in laws simply a NO-NO! BIG FAT MISTAKE! Gosh!

3. It kills me to see my aunt worries and cry about this matter…! Bloody MONGKAY!

4. I for a fact have no respect towards the wife, sepa suruh kurang ajar to my mum and my aunt… she worth zero in my eyes!

5. Family will always be family… We do stick together…especially when 1 of the members is in trouble. The others will empathize and do whatever they can to help out. But, don’t be too proud to accept the help being offer to settle the matter. You weren’t born alone nor standing alone during your marriage with her. You have your family to back you up, celebrating the joy, grief with you as well as standing beside you in time of your need.

6. Kes men halau-halau ni kes berat tau… ! U need the extra help…... and ya.. u need to wake up smell the coffee!

7. If you want us the family to stay away from your own personal problem…..sure…. Imagine this… When you decided to get marry, is it a one man show or is it a family thing? Who decided to spare their time and come to make the wedding a success, who decorate and cooked for it…? We … the family … who were there … making one of our family dream to be a husband come true….. I guess all that probably forgotten by you… Oh well….!

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In life, there’s a time when we will reach this kind of crossroads. The only difference is the situation, timing, people or places….yet the theme is still the same “Making a choice”. When you arrive at the crossroads, will you be ready to be a man and make the final decision. In this drama, I already seen his choices … and it is outright brainless…! Cmon’ la … it is time to face the music and dance to the music of your heart!

I guess at time we do find it hard to admit that we put our spouses/gf /bf /friends first before our own blood relatives especially our parents in particular. Is it because we find them to be needy, super boring and most of the time interfering our personal space and life. Either way, being too selfish for our own happiness has its own repercussion. When we do realize our own ignorance, it might be all too little too late. I guess watching this drama unfold in front of me really taught me a lesson about the thin line between family (parents) VS our gf / bf / friends. Which 1 should you be prioritizing more? …. Most often we fail to find the check and balance between both subjects. In the end, we put the latter first and neglect our own parent & family!

Oh well, at least I realize marriage is not just about you and me alone…. It is about you, me and both our families as well…! Never overlook the value of family and its roles in our life. Gosh…what a roller coaster life it had been for all of us... ! I do think I am somewhat becoming disrespect of marriage institution... Either way... that's life in the modern world.... Like they say, if you cant take the heat, get out of the kitchen!

By the way, I know it is kinda harsh, but I only express from what I heard and saw.... Whatever happens ...happens... All the best....! Though, I do appreciate the fact that you don't attack me during your drunk episode ... !

PS: This will be the last time I will be talking about “him & his marriage drama” … I am retiring this topic and surely this will leave him at peace…!