Every now and then we are confronted about the meaning of LOVE and almost every time we find it is closely related to SEX! Well, our culture --> which is the “proud” Asian culture doomed this “SEX” topic as a taboo subject. You surely will be scornfully nagged if you ever talk this matter in front of the elders and most often they choose to avoid the subject. Well that is another topic, but that is not what I want to say here.
The fact that people today associate LOVE as SEX seems to be nauseating to me. I know “IT” supposes to be liberating way of life as well as a sacrifice that you make to your body for the one you love! God heavens NO! Big FAT NO!!! Nobody should be blinded by LOVE vs. SEX! Love is the feeling --->True feeling you have for that person, how you willingly gave your heart for the other half to cherish and value for all its worth. But, now all I am seeing is that SEX is truly is a must for those in love. Even, the younger generation ranging from age 14 – 18 (or perhaps even younger) are joining in the bandwagon to the “land of lust”!! My….oh my!! Don’t let lusts cloud your view or judgments! It’s OK to give in but there’s a limit to it and know when to say NO! Honestly, guys / boys that say “if you love me, then you should have sex with me” ---> that is not LOVE my dear! He who said that is obviously someone that isn’t destine for you …. He’s just another Bastard who hunger the lust lingering over the sweetness of your delicate body! Think twice before you embark into the “land of lust” Keep in mind “He who willing to wait, are those for keep”! Guys be a gentleman and don’t push the lady into thinking SEX is keeping the relationship going. Well, I am saying this not to preach whatsoever, but hey we are slowly moving toward the land of lust instead of LOVE! We forget that what LOVE got to do with SEX anyway! Even so, as we forward to the land of modernization, we upgrade our minds, body and soul ---> in what ways that apply to us!
Well, I do have few girlfriends of mine, who were living in hatred and anger due to the fact they intimately involved or lost their virginity to some bloody bastard. They can’t seem to get pass that, but hey that is the harsh cycle of life and you do learn best from ‘experiences’ they say! I also do have few girlfriends who were liberated by being sexually active ---> Well, no comment for that, I do respect their promiscuity and yes…. You are …what you made of! As for those of my girlfriends who refuse to give in to lust, congrats and keep on standing tall… Don’t be ashamed to stay that way as it nothing wrong to be a VIRGIN…
Anyhow, think twice ladies, later Regret is not a choice as it is a reality …… and if you in any case say YES …. Choose to go for “GLOVE”! Safety is priority number 1!!
Also, Choose to Profess you LOVE differently on this Valentine Day! And if you already arrive in “the land of lust”, don’t mop around like sad puppy or jump up and down like a monkey got her banana…. Just take it like a pinch of salt ---> Lesson in Life!
The fact that people today associate LOVE as SEX seems to be nauseating to me. I know “IT” supposes to be liberating way of life as well as a sacrifice that you make to your body for the one you love! God heavens NO! Big FAT NO!!! Nobody should be blinded by LOVE vs. SEX! Love is the feeling --->True feeling you have for that person, how you willingly gave your heart for the other half to cherish and value for all its worth. But, now all I am seeing is that SEX is truly is a must for those in love. Even, the younger generation ranging from age 14 – 18 (or perhaps even younger) are joining in the bandwagon to the “land of lust”!! My….oh my!! Don’t let lusts cloud your view or judgments! It’s OK to give in but there’s a limit to it and know when to say NO! Honestly, guys / boys that say “if you love me, then you should have sex with me” ---> that is not LOVE my dear! He who said that is obviously someone that isn’t destine for you …. He’s just another Bastard who hunger the lust lingering over the sweetness of your delicate body! Think twice before you embark into the “land of lust” Keep in mind “He who willing to wait, are those for keep”! Guys be a gentleman and don’t push the lady into thinking SEX is keeping the relationship going. Well, I am saying this not to preach whatsoever, but hey we are slowly moving toward the land of lust instead of LOVE! We forget that what LOVE got to do with SEX anyway! Even so, as we forward to the land of modernization, we upgrade our minds, body and soul ---> in what ways that apply to us!
Well, I do have few girlfriends of mine, who were living in hatred and anger due to the fact they intimately involved or lost their virginity to some bloody bastard. They can’t seem to get pass that, but hey that is the harsh cycle of life and you do learn best from ‘experiences’ they say! I also do have few girlfriends who were liberated by being sexually active ---> Well, no comment for that, I do respect their promiscuity and yes…. You are …what you made of! As for those of my girlfriends who refuse to give in to lust, congrats and keep on standing tall… Don’t be ashamed to stay that way as it nothing wrong to be a VIRGIN…
Anyhow, think twice ladies, later Regret is not a choice as it is a reality …… and if you in any case say YES …. Choose to go for “GLOVE”! Safety is priority number 1!!
Also, Choose to Profess you LOVE differently on this Valentine Day! And if you already arrive in “the land of lust”, don’t mop around like sad puppy or jump up and down like a monkey got her banana…. Just take it like a pinch of salt ---> Lesson in Life!
2 comments:
good discussion. women better protect ur body from men who only take advantages. Be cautions when ur enter the world of lust... or sex make sure ur protected from STDs risk
Thanks for the comment...!! Other ppl jz think it as "berat sblh" & naive... Either way.. Hve a lovely day...
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