Wednesday, December 31, 2008

Christmas Celebration 2008


Christmas this year was soooo fun and lovely. Like I mentioned before in my blog that this year we are going to have a quiet celebration, yet I was definitely wrong! There were plenty of parties and houses to go. I truly was in and out of my head with all the food. It was a definitely a FATTening Season for me, honestly I can visually see my tummy extended few inches and gained extra kg along the way!! Duh!!


Anyway, being in Sipitang kinda soothing my emo a lot as I feel rejuvenated and at ease with the atmosphere. It was good to meet new but even more fun to meet all my old friends and meeting up with ‘em just brings back all the memories! Plus, catching up with them was so soulfully fun; we talked out loud and laughing out loud like nobody business… Hell, it’s been so long that we all manage to sit together, just talking and surely it was a fun day. I’m glad we are still the same and can talked like we did few years back and I love every bits of my times with them. Still, changes can be seen in most of them. Some already have their own career, extra responsibilities towards their family as well as husband, have their own fashion sense, either way all looking wonderful and fabulous. I can actually see we are all quickly turning into young women with lots of wisdom, courage and already in right path of life. Wow, shocking yet truthfully an eye opening for me. I guess I can fully admit it now that I must STOP goofing around and take my responsibilities seriously. Huh, what a life! Duh! The funny thing about catching up is asking whether or not we have bf or not. Hahahaha, simply Malaysian way of saying “you need to have someone to be admitted to the society”… It is quite funny to see them guessing whether I have someone stash somewhere in KK…. Hahaha



Also, this season everybody is bringing somebody to meet and greet the family. Unfortunately, our family is the only one still failed to bring someone back. Ahahaha… Watching my big sister being asked the common question “where her BF is?” That was so funny and priceless watching her facial expression changes …. As for my mum, she was surprise to see her 2 daughters and son are drinking liquor. I think she still have thought of us as a child, child that doesn’t know anything about drinking. As she saw us mixing and drinking the all the liquor, her mouth was wide open. But for my dad, his action was unassuming and he was OK with that (he is a cool dad). I guess we are good at hiding stuff s like that from both of their knowledge. Basically, most parents still consider their child to be a child forever even though most of them are grown ups already. Parents are like that, their need to care and protect their children are so in them, that most of them still have the tendency to micro manage their child’s life. Oh well, it is good to have that extra care and benefit from our parents from time to time. They are like our safety blanket that always pulls us together no matter how we wish to take it off.




Tuesday, December 30, 2008

Just Goofing Around.... Again

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Pics from Church





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Pics during the Wedding



Wednesday, December 24, 2008

Kumon and Me

2 weeks ago, I went 4 interview for Kumon. Kumon is actually a self learning center that originated from Japan.....yadda..yadda... It is interesting to see child as young as 3 years old able to read, good job! Basically, my friend recommended me for the interview as I was unemployed and freshly graduated, I guess this is one way to gain working experience.

Btw, during the interview I manage to do all the Dont's part by stuttering here and there, I can feel myself sweating of nervousness and yes I did not do my research about Kumon. Well, thankfully I read the plat and can answer few of her questions. Instead of talking bout the facts, I just wing it. I also commit mistake by saying my expected salary is RM600-RM800. That was stupid of me and I regret it now and I realize if I were paid in that amount, surely I am underpaid, no wonder she accept me straight away. I guess I was totally green and new to the working force. Lesson learned and next time I will be more prepare. Hmm... I do hope I can score in my upcoming test to determine how much I will receive as my salary and hopefully get more than what I expected. I need the extra cash to pay my PTPN and support myself. Well, Il be starting my new job this 30/12/2008 and hopefully things will work well.

PS: I do hope I can stay committed and interested in my new job!

Be a Man

What does it mean being a man? Does it mean he need to be in power, take control and take charge in all the things he do, capable of managing his life accordingly, strong in a sense of his personality, cunningly smart, firm, steadfast and able provide for himself as well as the people around him.


But something that really confuses me is the fact how a man posses so much power in his work and he control a department of staffs and is consider to be on top of his game could be so undecided in terms of his personal life and family. In my opinion, he should take a stand and take charge of his life. Between the love towards his families and love for his wife and son… he should therefore take a side and stick to it. No matter how hard it may be, just stick to it and hopefully things will work out well. It’s just a waste of energy by lying to both sides and even harder to carry such burden alone. I mean he went back and forth to his wife‘s home claiming he went to see friends which is obnoxious. I mean we are not blind to neither see nor realize he is in fact gone to see his wife. It is just as stupid watching commuting from his wife’s home and here (my cousin’s home). I mean if he still loves his wife, just go back and settle all the dirty laundry. I know it is hard, but it is harder for him later if he did not take a stand now! Be a MAN and take your stand now!


Lately, I saw an alarming pattern of him. Not only did he come back in the early morning, he also came home so wasted…. I mean so drunk. What’s up, how did he turn to be an alcoholic and a drunk , I guess after being let out of the cage, he is finally able to do things when he was a bachelor. Still, it is unhealthy habit and I do wish he will change for the better. I do wish all the best for him next year and hopefully he’ll get through this. -> (so in the forgiving mood)-> (I blame the spirit of Xmas!)


Before I 4get, I met his wife this afternoon. As we were shopping in CKS, my cousin saw her and instantly calls me. I then saw her as both of us were shopping in the same lane. We came across each other, but manage to stay as stranger. Honestly at the exact moment I realize I wasn’t as angry as I initially did. I mean meeting her and knowing what she done really sparks and deepen my hatred toward her yet I realize she is a woman with agenda. The more I hate her, the more she will come on top. Oh well, it is a waste of my time and energy to be bother by her stupid child play. But I do like to make fun her and of course I do have a kick on it.



Either way, Merry Xmas to all and Happy New Year!

Monday, December 22, 2008

Bad Day ...Again

I feel like crap today....and as I woke up early this morning I have this crazy headache and my head literally buzzing! It was a sight in which I hope I shall never experience it! Oh man b4 u get into the wrong idea, I wasn't hungover from Last nite, I was as a matter of fact contracted Fever/ Cold / Demam from my dear friend Zz. That's sux, it totally put me in2 an emo mood.

You know the worst part, is when I was dragged out of the bed at 7.30am and escorted my dear aunts and cuzzie to the airport! OMG, I hate the rushing part especially during my sick moment! Coughfing all the way was ok though yet the worst part is staying in balance! All my body ache and soar, my nose was runny, head explodingly ache & emotianally tired and drain from the fever! Hohoho - seems too much but then that's what I felt during the day! During my shopping of lights 4 the new house simply made my head spin even more. I mean there's various type of choices and all look seemingly beautiful and shiny. I end up choosing the first 1 I saw and take my aunt's and my cuzzie's advices...... Easy, I was done and out of there for about 1 hour an half. Not bad for 1st time lights shopper! I regret the fact that I didn't brough my camera and take pics on the light! I do hope my family love the choices I made and hope the choices will go well on the house decor.


FYI- Im still in an emo mood and I do hate eating the medications! Urgh, I do hope Christmas will be glisteningly bright and healthier for me!


Ps: Sorreee for my tantrums and rudeness this morning -> can't help it when you are in an emo mood and have fever!

Wednesday, December 17, 2008

Have a Blessed Christmas






What I want 4 Christmas:


1. My mom to get well and her legs strong enough to run.


2. Family gathering & dinner together.


3. Nothing but blessing from HIM to my families.


4. For all of us to be Merry & Happy New Year!


5. People will find the true meaning of family!








My time spent in Sipitang

Welcome To Kg Muhibah - My Homiee

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Free time is something in which I have a lot in Sipitang. So like any other vibrant & sweet girl will do, I contribute most of it by cleaning the house from top to bottom. It’s not quite spick and span yet, but it can be considered as ok la….! At least I didn’t use my free time by slacking all over the house.



Some of the Pics from The KKD Holy Family Caroling's Team

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The After Party

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Glitter Photos

I also joined my KKD’s Caroling Team and that was quite interesting and merry. At the same time ,I did do some good by spreading the joy of Christmas to every house within our domain. But, what bothers me most is why they change the lyric of Merry Xmas to → Blessed Xmas… I spot something wrong with it yet oddly interesting to hear all at the same time. I specially love the Dusun version of it → Kotobian, Kotobian, Kotobian do blakat Xmas….! That so sweet …loves it! Oh ya, the team was very sweet and welcoming, that’s something which I truly enjoyed as my past time in Cptg. Plus the food that was served simply fattening (yummy) and I gained extra pound 4 that… arghh … Xmas with an extra stuffing in my tummy!










 

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